He is not happy with me again!

This morning, I went to work with my hubby, taking a ride from him, glad to spend time with him as he worked late till midnight.

But along the way, we squabbled again. This is not the first time. I just asked him about whether Friday he no need to work late and he was unhappy. He said I am questioning him about something, I should ask him in a nicer way.

I feel speechless and heart-sank. very stress to talk to own husband. He feels I am controlling him a lot so if I ask about his work too much, he is not happy. As a wife, I should just follow his orders and not probe too much or we should just simply avoid each other or rather don't talk face to face.